Relaxation
Simple Methods To Sleep Easier
Do you often spend far beyond too much time trying to fall asleep? Or, are you never fully calm as you lay in your bed, waiting for those Zzz’s to come?
Many people experience this same sort of problem each and every night. Not being able to fully feel comfortable in bed can be a result of various things. More often than not, stress and anxieties in our lives is what stops us from feeling at peace in the one definite spot that we should. As we get into bed, many think about the problems they’ve experienced over the day, or the list of to-do’s that are needed to be done the next day. Check out what I had to say about keeping stress and work out of your bed from my guest post on DietHack. As our minds travel at a million miles per hour when we’re anxious and stressed, the rest of our body also feels the same tension, if not more. It’s not often realized, but during this time our muscles tense up beyond belief all night long when we feel like this. The end result of this is waking up in the morning feeling very tired and even more stressed throughout the day. Try some of these simple methods to help ease your body when it comes to getting some solid shut-eye…
It’s all in the breathing
When laying down into bed, focus on taking few, but deep and pleasant breaths. Breathe in through your nose, while holding it in for a bit, and then exhaling slowly out of your mouth. While doing this, focus on the slightly cool air passing through your nose, and then the warmer air smoothly rolling out of your mouth. Steve at Brip Blap has a great article that further explains this breathing process, with a slightly different spin. After fully focusing on these deep and slow breaths, you should feel much more eased and grounded. Just as you would take these types of breaths before a speech or any other type nervous situation, they will help settle your nerves and calm your body.
Never forget body control
As you are doing your slow and deep breaths, also take this time to focus on the various muscles all throughout your body. First, begin by thinking of the muscles that make up the face and head region. With a breath in, concentrate on tightening and then relaxing the muscles in your face, tongue, neck, and jaw. After focusing on each of these single muscle groups, exhale, letting go of the deep breath that was within. Continue with this technique throughout the rest of your body, starting from the top and all the way down. Work to tense the muscles and then slowly letting them go to a relaxed position. After extending this exercise to your fingertips and toes, continue the process by adding positive thoughts and surroundings to help put your mind and body at peace.
Remembering how to sleep
To help enhance what you have already done to ease your body, begin to think of the times you’ve had your best night’s sleep. These could be times from your childhood, with your partner you love, or from a vacation spot that was far beyond relaxing. As we spend our times trying to slip into slumber, we often feel even more anxious because of the time that it takes. Use these previous images and memories as anchors to ease the fear of insomnia. While putting the first two steps together, your body should feel much more at home with itself, with the least amount of worry. If you ever feel even the slightest twinge of worry or anxiety enter your mind, quickly erase it with these positive and soothing thoughts from the past.
Watch the food and drinks
Having the proper type and amount of food in you as you go to bed is equally important. It’s never a good thing to go to bed hungry, so that’s beyond the most important tip here. More often than not, the reason why we go to bed with a slight hunger is because we ate an early dinner and then skipped a midevening snack. Without eating this small night snack, our blood sugar level drops and sparks anxiety. Many times this can happen in the middle of the night when your body feels the most hungry, so you will find yourself awakening from sleep. As not every type of food is the best before sleep, try focusing on these simple types:
- A serving of fresh fruit, such as an apple or orange.
- A low-fat yogurt or cottage cheese.
- Any high-carbohydrate, high-protein favorite.
These foods will help relax your mind and body before even entering bed. Your emotions will calm and your whole state of mind will become much more mellow. Although, along with these foods, we must keep in mind of the foods that we would better not have right before jumping into bed:
- Any coffee, tea, or other caffeinated beverages within 4-5 hours before bedtime.
- Any alcoholic drinks within 3-4 hours. We might think that alcohol helps slow the mind, but as it does this, it also throws off our normal brain-pattern of sleep. This can result in frequent awakenings in the middle of the night with difficulties in getting back to sleep.
On a side note…
I have been very fortunate to be included in three very well-informing help carnivals this week. Please visit each one and read what the many others have to say.
- Total Mind and Body Fitness Blog Carnival 28
- Carnival of Healing #116
- Weight Management and Fitness Forum – 7th Edition
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How A Visit To The Sauna Could Benefit You

As I was working out at the gym last night, I decided to to check out something that I’ve always looked past and thought was crazy. Since I ate a rather large dinner right before working out, I wanted to see how the sauna room might help me digest and allow me to relax. It took some time for the hot rocks to get the temperature up to 150 degrees, but once it did, that room was baking…
A Release Of Tension
Before doing any research, I came to my own conclusion that about 20 minutes in the sauna would do wonders on my very tensed, and tight back. As the acupuncturist told me the other day as she massaged my back, I needed to keep my body and back very warm to promote blood circulation. One thing she did not mention for me to visit was a sauna, BINGO! Luckily my assumption was correct. When I did research later on, saunas greatly increase the heart rate, about double. This definitely increases blood flow throughout the body, including to those areas of the body that are in pain and feel tensed. From the warmth of the sauna, the increased blood flow helps relieve contracted muscles and aching joints. This is exactly what the doctor ordered! After I spent 20 minutes in the sauna, and now that I sit here 10 hours later writing this article, my back feels much more relaxed and my aching neck is almost nonexistent.
A Great Way To Relax
Saunas have proven to be beneficial to our physical health, but it also works wonders on our psychological side. As I am right in the middle of finals week at my university, I figured the sauna would also be a wonderful way to relieve some stress and just find a quiet place to relax for a bit. I know there are some out there that are not appealed to a hot, possibly steamy room, but I love ‘em! Through the drips and drops of sweat off of my body, I felt a complete release of tension and an overall peace. The heart pulse rises, but the mental functions slow. I laid down and closed my eyes for about 15 of the 20 minutes and felt completely relaxed. As research shows, saunas also prepare the body for a great night’s sleep. Those that have problems sleeping or have a condition such as insomnia, saunas would definitely aid in finally getting that much needed complete rest.
A Possible Exercise Replacement
Replacing any type of exercise was not my intention of the sauna, but it was definitely a plus. As the sauna reaches very high temperatures, such as 160 degrees, the heart rate nearly doubles. I took my pulse after being in for over 10 minutes and I definitely noticed that my pulse felt very similar to as when I’m running. It was difficult for my head to wrap around how my pulse could be so high by just laying down in a sauna, but I guess it works. While sitting down in a sauna, you are actually burning calories and losing weight, believe it or not. Just as your heart rate increases with exercise, along with your metabolism, saunas allow the body to do the same. 15-20 minutes in the sauna is about equivalent to 1-2 hours of brisk walking or 1 hour of exercise. Now you can burn all of the unwanted fat by never lifting a finger!
Detoxify In The Sauna
As we all know that when you’re in a sauna, you sweat buckets (or maybe that was just me last night). Along with the other benefits, saunas trigger the body to release unwanted toxins through the act of sweating. Since sweating is the way that our body rids nearly a third of its toxins, saunas provide a very important relief. When our body temperature rises, we detox as the sweat releases through our pores. This is also a great, purifying way for people with skin conditions to cleanse their pores. Saunas have shown that those with acne and other skin conditions benefit from the rise in temperature and the increase of oxygen and nutrients to the skin.
Guide to Home Saunas & Sauna Kits – Everything you ever wanted to know about home saunas and building your own. Finnish, steam, infrared and portable saunas, sauna kits and heater options.
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Why Acupuncture Could Be For You

Many of us have a fear of needles, and why not, they look scary and cause pain. Others of us don’t like the idea of trusting someone else to perform treatments on our bodies. As we all have our own fears about things in life, many times we muscle up and get over them. Recently I faced these fears and experienced acupuncture for the first time. I did not go out of spite to validate that I was strong enough to undergo these activities, I did it to make my body much more healthy, naturally. Since I choose to lead a mainly natural lifestyle, I felt that acupuncture could be a great treatment for some aches and pains in my body. When I first began this blog I wrote about pains in my neck and how I chose to see a chiropractor for the first time. Just as in that situation, I was equally, if not more anxious to see how this new experience would be like. As those pains in my neck and life’s stress continue to play a part on my body, I chose acupuncture as a possible remedy.
Some Common Misconceptions
As many people in this world get uncomfortable around needles (myself included), it’s a very good reason why many people choose to never try getting acupuncture. The truth of the matter is that these needles seem less than the thickness of body hair. Acupuncture needles are ridiculously tiny, only 32-gauge, compared to a typical injection needle, which is 14-gauge. Many people also believe that acupuncturists violently try to push these needles into your body, but that is also false. When the needle is inserted (which is barely into your skin), the acupuncturist lightly flicks the top. The best thing is, as the needle enters, you barely feel a thing! The most pain you’ll feel from these is a possible light tickling sensation.
Acupuncture Is Proven To Treat…
- Stress
- Indigestion
- Depression
- The common cold
- Headaches
- Any sort of body aches and pains
- Fatigue
- Sleep problems
- Reproductive problems
- Migraines
- Asthma
- Arthritis
- Smoking and other addictions
- PMS
- Anxiety
- And many other conditions that I could list out all day long…
Acupuncture is said to be such a great treatment for almost any conditions because at one time it was used as an anesthesia. If you figure that acupuncture could help remedy pain during a medical procedure such as surgery, I’m pretty dang sure that it could help with any of our other problems.
What Are Some Common Acupuncture Procedures?
The great thing about acupuncture is that there are such a wide range of treatments that are involved. Coming in for my treatment, I thought that it was just going to be pins and needles in my back, and nothing more. Luckily, I was wrong…
- The acupuncture itself: Tiny, disposable, sterile needles placed very gently into specific acupuncture points.
- Acupressure/Tuina: Depending on the injury or condition, a great massage done with a cooling and warming cream. This is to stimulate the natural flow of your Qi and release other tension in your body.
- Tai Chi: Movement exercises that help develop a bodily balance, overall great feeling, and maximum health.
- Cupping: The use of a glass or bamboo cup to create a suction from the body to increase warmth and circulation.
- Moxibustion: A dried leaf called mugwart is burned and placed on the ends of the needles. This helps release tension and aid more circulation from the warmth.
- Herbs and Vitamins: Depending on your condition, a good acupuncturist will view your tongue and be able to tell you what foods, herbs, or vitamins you are insufficient of.
- Qi Gong: Specific breathing methods and movements used to improve health and vitality.
How Does It All Work?
Through the use of these various acupuncture treatment methods, it helps promote the energetic system within us all that maintains health and balance, which is called Qi (pronounced “Chee”). Qi is supposed to provide us with the power to accomplish everyday activities. Qi is vital through our growth, development, maintenance of balance, protection against illnesses, and an overall regulation of our bodies. Acupuncture focuses on certain points on our bodies that correspond with the areas we have pain. These points are called meridians, which is where the Qi flows to the various organs and areas of the body. With the help of acupuncture, Qi is better able to flow through the parts of the body where the Qi is lacking, which are the areas we have pain. With a blockage of Qi, we experience pain and overall discomfort.
I highly recommend seeing an acupuncturist if you experience any of the above conditions, or if you just want to relieve any kind of tension and experience a new thing. You can find acupuncturists all over the place, but I would also suggest to go to a health store and see who they recommend. Much can be remedied without the use of drugs and other artificial treatments, so try acupuncture and see what it could do for you.
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The Easiest Way To Heal Anxiety: Laughter!
Ha ha ha ha ha, oooo!!!
What’s so funny, you ask? Well, how about you just check out this image and see what your reaction will be.
OK, are you done laughing yet? It’s fine if you’re not, I’ll still be here… (If you didn’t laugh, search around on Google for some of the “funniest images” and see what sparks your interest to get yourself in the mood.)
So, what’s the big deal about laughing anyways? Why are more people than ever trying to make time just to laugh? It is the simplest way to release all of that built up anxiety and frustration inside! If you don’t believe me, check out this new pastime, LAUGHTER YOGA. Never would I in a hundred years think these people were sane, until now! These people gather, not to tell jokes or to watch a funny movie; they come together to just simply laugh. Talk about a great workout while having a blast by just laughing hysterically about nothing in particular!
As this may not seem like the way we’d like to spend our Saturday afternoons, these people are definitely on to something big. Laughing has been seen as the easiest way to lighten up your day, and even the rest of your life. It completely changes the way you approach life and interact with the people around you. Why would you want to go a day without feeling like you’re on top of the world?!
“Laughter is inner jogging.”
-Norman Cousins
Taking some time out of your day to really try and laugh has been compared to a great workout. Just like doing your favorite exercise, laughing frees up your mind from all of the worries that might have been previously running havoc on your brain. Here are a couple ideas to try if you find yourself worrying more than laughing:
- Set 10 minutes of your day aside to do all of the worrying you can.
- Once that is out, block it out from your mind for the rest of the day.
- If you catch yourself beginning to worry more, tell yourself to wait until your next designated “worry time”.
- After trying this a few times, your “worry times” will become the time you laugh the most. You’ll finally realize how funny and ridiculous it really is to worry constantly.
The ones with the ability to have fun and also have a good sense of humor are normally those that bounce back the quickest from stress. A good sense of humor does not mean knowing every good joke out there and realizing when the correct time to laugh is, it is having the ability to laugh at the smallest, most ridiculous absurdities out there. With this, you’ll find yourself laughing at some of the most foolish of hassles and struggles that come from everyday life.
Learn to live life by laughing through it while holding onto a great sense of humor. The ins and outs of daily life will beat us down if we do not know how to combat it with laughter. Now that you’ve finished reading this post, take a moment to step away from the computer and laugh about one of the simplest pleasures in life. If you think that thought in itself is funny, then LAUGH ABOUT IT!
Picking the Right Pillow
About two months ago I began getting stiff and sore necks as I woke up. This was not a problem that arose every morning, but was often enough to question what the heck was going on. Eventually I went to the chiropractor and found out that one of the disks in my neck was out of line. Read my previous post, Chiropractics: A Life Adjustment, and check out all the fun I went though. As the exact cause of my misaligned neck was not known, my sleeping positions and pillows at home are two prime culprits. At the time I was sleeping on my stomach, mainly, which is the worst sleeping position. I was told to immediately stop doing this and to flip onto my back for sleeping. With the pillows I had, along with many other pillows out there, while sleeping on my stomach, my neck was being either pushed up or slumping down and twisted to the side. In relation to the position of where my misaligned disk was, the C7 (just above the shirt-line), it made sense that this might be my reason for stiff necks.
The only two healthy methods to sleep is either on our backs or our sides. I will not even bring up the stomach sleeping, as many chiropractors think very poorly of it, and it would require some magical pillow that I’ve never seen before. Here are some suggestions to finding the right pillow, depending on the type of sleeper you are…
- Side Sleepers: Find a pillow that is supportive enough to fill the space between your shoulder and head. The goal is to find a pillow that will fill that gap without allowing the head to slump down or be pushed up. You need to keep that neck perfectly straight throughout the night!
- Back Sleepers: One of those memory foam, or slightly rounded-shaped pillows might be best for you. For this sleeping style, you want a pillow that isn’t as stiff as one you would use for sleeping on your side. Find a medium firmness pillow that is just high enough to keep the neck aligned without pushing the neck too high. Still, keep that neck straight! A plus with the shaped pillows is that there is sometimes a curve for the lower neck to fit in to. This is helpful because it lifts the lower neck enough to allow the spine to hold its natural curve.
Choosing the correct firmness, shape, and all of that might take some work. It’s worth shopping around for and taking the time to rest your head on pillow after pillow in the store. You might look a little funny testing all pillows, but it’s definitely worth spending the extra time. I purchased a memory foam pillow for my back sleeping and a thicker pillow for my side sleeping; ever since then I have not have any neck pains in the morning. So, don’t settle for that old pillow on the bed anymore, go take care of yourself!



